Dougherty Valley High school, located in San Ramon, CA, is widely known for its academic rigor. This rigor reflects onto the student body, establishing a condescending attitude in many towards those who don’t fit the school’s academic status quo. 

During the second semester, a prominent question for most seniors projects through the hallways: “Where are you planning to go to college?” A simple question for most can hold deeper implications at Dougherty Valley (DV). 

Attending community college for two years before transferring to a four-year university is an economical option taken by many students but has been branded as a symbol of failure. Amplified in the affluent environment of San Ramon where the median household income exceeds $160,000, attending community college is looked down upon even further. 

Manu Moganti, a freshman at Diablo Valley College and a member of DV’s class of 2020 recalls her experiences when she decided to take the community college route, noting that it took her a lot of strength in order to come to terms with attending a community college. 

“In this community, where we emphasize academics and extracurriculars all for getting into a good college, anything below that is just looked down upon,” Moganti said. 

Moganti recalls sharing her future plans with peers at DV during her senior year, specifically an instance with one of her fellow students in her Advanced Placement (AP) economics class. Moganti claims while everyone is outwardly supportive of her decision, it is clear that their true attitudes are condescending. 

“It’s just so fake,” Moganti said, “They won’t outwardly express it but you can tell from their manners and how they act or what they say about other colleges, you can just tell how they feel about something like community college.” 

This obtrusive elitism, however, extends much higher than community college on the college hierarchy. Moganti describes the culture of students derogating other colleges in order to illuminate their own. 

“Especially around college admission times, people will try to make other colleges seem less than theirs. They [will] be like, ‘oh I don’t like this college it’s so bad’ and stuff like that,” Moganti said. 

Sana Ansari, a senior at DV describes the negative stigma around going to community college but claims studying at many four-year universities also does not satisfy the status quo. 

“You’re only smart if you go to an Ivy League or like a top UC university or something like that.” Ansari said, “That’s definitely the mindset here.”

Ansari explains how this perception of college admissions makes people feel ashamed to go to community college even though there is nothing wrong with it. 

Instances such as these are numerous during the college decision season, especially at DV, and create a positive feedback loop of competitive mindsets because no one wants to be at the bottom of the college food chain. This approach to college admissions, however, is not beneficial. And while there are pros to a cut-throat competitive environment, there are also strong negative consequences.

To begin, a poll done by the Wildcat Tribune shows that around 85% of students of all grade levels at DV considered themselves “extensively stressed by school-related challenges.” This is a drastically higher frequency than the national average of about 50%, as reported by the Princeton Review. 

Further than just stress, an environment that ties student’s self-worth to the college they are admitted to, their GPA or career choice ties strong negative emotions with nonoptimal grades. Rather than allowing students to decipher what success means to them, an environment such as DV’s puts emphasis on the status quo of societal success in high school.  

“If you go to DVC then you kind of feel ashamed of it just because of the stigma around it,” said Ansari.

Experiences like these occur with frequency at DV. This sort of peer pressure makes students question their worth when they do not take rigorous courses or follow the status quo of the DV academic environment. 

“There was a lot of pressure because I did feel like, oh I didn’t take AP calculus or these really tough science or math courses,” said Ansari. 

Annesha Dey, a junior at DV continues to describe these pressures and speaks on how extracurriculars are a large point of stress for her. Dey speaks on how she consistently feels the need to run a club or do an internship, for example, simply because her peers are doing it. 

“You look at what other people achieve then belittle yourself because you don’t have the same things as them,” said Dey.

Students report that this standard extends further than academic excellence. Stigmas around various majors favor the Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics (STEM) fields but look down on arguably less lucrative fields such as political science. Ansari plans to study environmental policy in college and shares the reactions she gets when sharing this with others.

“I feel like there’s some sort of unsaid judgment,” said Sana Ansari, a senior at DV. 

DV Junior Faiz Hasnain shares similar experiences with Ansari and describes how his peers often degrade his intended major when he shares it with them. 

“People say that some degrees are better than others […]They do realize that your path is successful but they just want to distract you by telling you the opposite,” Hasnain said. 

There are benefits to a rigorous environment, however, as students do express how the highly competitive environment at DV pushes them to be better and allows them the opportunity to showcase their best selves. This environment also teaches students to be proud of who they are in the face of judgment. 

Dey claims this environment has pushed her to be the best she could be and has motivated her to try new things that she would not have tried if she had gone to a school with less academic rigor. 

“Having people around you that are intelligent and hardworking inspires you to be hardworking too,” said Dey. 

Hasnain shares how through his experience at DV, he has learned to go against the status quo and express his true values even though the environment may not support them. 

“For me, self-worth was tied to grades and what kind of classes I took but life is more than just grades and transcripts,” said Hasnain. 

Hasnain speaks on how the environment at DV can be considered toxic in the sense that many people don’t want to see you succeed; a view Hasnain claims is caused by jealousy. On the other hand, Hasnain also describes the importance of having experiences like these and the lessons they have taught him. 

“Learning that in high school is important because as you go beyond high school and beyond college, these philosophies are important,” said Hasnain. 

It is apparent through these anecdotes that a judgmental attitude is prevalent in DV’s environment but where does this stem from. The influence of parents seems to be the source of such attitudes. 

“Everyone here kind of looks at other people and thinks ‘oh they’re good if they are going to this college,’ but I think that is due to the background of people’s parents,” said Dey. 

Dougherty’s student body boasts demographics of 74% asian. Understanding certain elements in many Asian cultures can give insight into understanding DV’s environment. 

Dey shares how when her dad was going to school in India, scores from exams were posted on a wall in public for all to see. 

“Everyone would go and see who’s at the top and who’s at the bottom and that’s kind of where that judgmental system came in,” said Dey. 

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